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4 Ways Marriage Therapists Know Your Marriage Is Over





There may come a point where the connection in your marriage diminishes from its initial state. Even the minor aspects of your partner's personality might begin to bother you, and recurrent arguments play out in a continuous loop. You find yourself not opening up to your partner as much as before, and, honestly, you're uncertain if you can envision them in your future.

 

Perhaps your relationship is going through a challenging phase that appears insurmountable. Even if everything seems "fine," a lingering doubt persists. Whatever the situation, you're contemplating whether the relationship has run its course and if it's time to move on. To provide clarity for your forward journey, here are some obvious (and not-so-obvious) indicators that could suggest your relationship is already over.

 

When standing at a crossroads in your relationship, decision-making becomes challenging. On one hand, recognizing that love requires effort encourages salvaging a good thing if possible. On the other hand, avoiding denial becomes crucial to prevent drifting further into an unhappy relationship. Look for consistent incompatibilities that persist, regardless of your efforts. Here are four signs your relationship may be beyond repair:

 

  1. Diminished Intimacy: If one partner consistently responds to attempts at sexual intimacy with excuses such as tiredness, irritation, stress, or disconnection, it could signify deeper relationship issues. While occasional dry spells are normal, a recurring pattern of physical and emotional distancing warrants attention. Open lines of communication are crucial, as a lack of sharing and confiding often precedes a decline in intimacy.

  2. Inability to Problem Solve Together: Long-term relationships often involve recurring arguments, yet an inability to address underlying issues can lead to resentment. Effective problem-solving requires open, positive, and honest communication. Avoiding certain discussions out of fear signals a significant loss of trust. When partners become adversaries instead of collaborators, it raises questions about the relationship's capacity for positive change.

  3. Feeling Alone Together: In a thriving relationship, you would want to share some alone time with your partner. In contrast, in a struggling relationship, you may feel lonely even when doing the same activities together. This emotional disconnect may lead to feelings of being misunderstood, trapped, shut down, or uncomfortable around your partner. Growing apart becomes inevitable when you neglect investing time and energy in nurturing your connection.

  4. Intuitive Knowing: Our subconscious mind, controlling 95% of our lives, often provides imperceptible signals that register as gut instincts telling us something is amiss. Gut feelings, linked to the enteric nervous system, play a major instinctive role in our physical and emotional states. Trust your intuition when you simply "know" something to be true. Distinguishing between fear-based thoughts and clear, truthful instincts is crucial.

 

Is It My Gut or Just My Anxiety Talking?

 

Distinguishing between gut instincts and anxiety involves recognizing fear-based thoughts versus clear, consistent, and truthful instincts. An unhealthy lifestyle can impact gut health, influencing mental well-being and instincts. For optimal cognitive functioning, align your mind, body, and soul with nourishing self-care practices.

 

If you've been contemplating ending your relationship, regardless of a clear reason, don't over-intellectualize the situation. Pay attention to your body and what it's telling you through mindfulness. You don't need a substantial reason to break up; you'll just know it.

 

Whether seeking therapy early or late, therapists recognize these warning signs. While most relationships can be salvaged with mutual effort, some are better concluded for the well-being of both partners. Therapists guide individuals through these decisions, offering direct advice that recipients can choose to follow.

 

 

 

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