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Searching for the Meaning of Christmas Begins at Home

Dec 12, 2016
2 min read

It’s tough being a parent, especially at Christmas. You know your child doesn’t need another gadget or toy to distract them, yet you love seeing the joy on their faces as they open their gifts on Christmas morning. You may struggle with the materialism of it all, knowing there’s more to the holidays than what you place under the tree. So how do you instill the deeper meaning of Christmas in your family so your children’s Christmas memories will be filled with joy instead of “material stuff?”

  1. Keep money out of the equation and begin a tradition that is yours. Kids love doing project with their parents and siblings. This includes little things, such as stringing popcorn and cranberries for the tree or making snacks for the birds over the winter. There are many ideas on Pinterest. Whether it’s holiday baking or learning to knit, these projects are meaningful and bring joy.

  2. Host a holiday get together that is your family’s signature. Having friends over for hot chocolate and desserts or dinner take on new meaning when it happens every year. Kids begin seeing the value in friends and sharing.

  3. Attend holiday events together. Sit down with your children and share holiday events you’d like to attend. Let them help decide and then attend them together.

  4. Family conversations after the events are very important. Children love having an opinion and being able to share their thoughts with their parents. Keep the gadgets off and talk to your kids about the holiday event. This helps kids understand family values.

  5. Treasure you home. You don’t need the biggest or best house to make it magical during the holiday season. Take one night each week and turn it into a treasured holiday experience. Dimming lights, lighting candles, putting on music, and serving a special dessert can make the dinner special. The best holiday memories happen with simple rituals at home with mom and dad. Never underestimate the treasures your children remember from their home.

One of my children’s favorite holiday memories was one I began when they were under five. My husband and I would take them on a car picnic. We’d stop for fast food and then drive the streets to look at Christmas lights. It was always cold outside and cozy in the car. The lights were so incredible but even more incredible was being together in that moment, shutting out the outside world.

 
 
 

9 Comments


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A Qué Hora Juega La Lotería es un recurso muy útil para consultar información actualizada. Me encantó esta actividad de Acción de Gracias para niños, ya que combina diversión y aprendizaje de una forma sencilla. Gracias por compartir una idea tan creativa para disfrutar en familia durante estas celebraciones.

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Jul 02

This article hits home with the dilemma many parents face during the holiday season. On another note, I also came across scritchy scratchy, which offers a different perspective on holiday fun with their incremental scratch-card game.

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This collection of free hidden object games is useful for anyone who likes casual puzzle games.

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I really enjoyed your insights on finding the true meaning of Christmas at home! cookie clicker How do you suggest we involve children in these traditions to deepen their understanding? Thank you for sharing this perspective!

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