My Soul Intention: sometimes making a positive change means letting go of relationships that were in your way. If you’ve ever struggled with a bad habit or an emotional problem, you know what enablers are. They’re the people who keep you stuck. They’re also the ones who benefit from you not changing. The healthier you become, the less likely you’ll fit in with the people you thought were your friends. A life lived with purpose and doing the right thing means taking a stand and that might not always please others. Part of making a change is taking the risk to be alone.