Good Thursday Morning, Friends! My Soul Intention: Temper tantrums do not look good on you. Watching a two year old have a temper tantrum is typical. They’re out of control with their frustration and a loving parent removes them from the troubling situation. Watching a 30, 40 or 50 year old having a tantrum is uncomfortable. If you can’t manage your anger it will manage you. It destroys everything you love and eventually destroys you.