Good Friday Morning, Friends! My Soul Intention: Is that argument worth fighting a battle and feeling bad? The majority of arguments are over menial things that don’t matter. Who did what to whom and why did you do that? The anger and tension that comes along with arguments is not healthy for you, your family, or your co-workers. Relax….really big things don’t change in a relationship unless both people want to change them. But, you can change the small things you get upset and fight about. Choose your battles….arguing over the laundry is not worth fighting for.