Good Thursday Morning, Friends! My Soul Intention: Judging others leads to unhappiness of self. The more you make your life about judging or gossiping about another’s flaws, the more likely you’ll become disgusted with yourself. This happens because in order to judge you have to compare, and whenever you compare, one is devalued compared to another. Learn to appreciate what others bring to your life without judgement. Connections grow deeper when others feel accepted.