Good Friday Morning, Friends! My Soul Intention: when someone cares about you, they don’t make themselves available to others talking trash about you. What people say about you when you’re not there says a lot about them. You shouldn’t worry about it because everyone has their opinion. However, when someone you care about tells you negative things others say about you, it’s important that you listen and learn. People who tell you negative things others say about you are aligning themselves with those who gossip, talk trash and have a deep sense of insecurity. None of those characteristics make good friends. Good friends defend your honor even when you are nowhere in sight.