Good Saturday Morning, Friends! My Soul Intentions: Trying to resist life’s plans for your life are a futile attempt to control what you have no control over. Everyone has a few control issues. It gives you security to believe you have control over things. But you don’t. In fact, the only thing you have control over are your reactions to the plans life has for you. Making plans is a good thing, and planning your life can help you achieve goals, but you have to know when to let go of your plans for life’s plans. Trying to resist change makes you bitter and resentful. No one likes all of the plans life deals them, yet there is opportunity to grow in a different way no matter what happens. Growing with life makes your life much larger and more interesting than when you fight against it.