Good Wednesday Morning, Friends! My Soul Intention: when you look for diversions from dealing with the problem, you create more problems. In attempts to stabilize a rocky marriage or a fragile relationship it’s not uncommon to look for distractions. Having a baby, building a home, renovating a home or any other distraction you take on will find you with another big problem. This will continue building until you fix the main problem. Be aware before you take on new things, and ask yourself if you’re running from something you need to deal with first. Getting married, having a baby or building a home are wonderful projects, but all three demand a stable base. The root of the problem is always the problem, and it’s usually the thing you don’t want to do, but must.