Good Christmas Eve Morning, Friends! My Soul Intention: create your own Christmas magic. Kids love making a list for Santa. They write a letter and list every toy they wish for. When you grow up you realize Santa isn’t there, and your wish list is dependent upon you to fulfill. Wishing for a great marriage, relationship, family, job, friends or whatever won’t get you those things. In fact, wishing for something can make you complacent and more passive about doing the work required to get it done. Wanting or wishing for something is a way we motivate ourselves, but waiting for someone else to get it for us, or figure it out turns us into a passive participant. Passive participants rarely get what they want, and if they do, they rarely feel good about their achievement. Create what you wish for!